Define " frienship "

hi people..long time no c ... i knew its been ages since i blogged..

haha..guess i promised sumore tat i will upload my bday pics, but sry... i still hvnt figure out how

transfer pics from cam to laptop...hehe..

well..back to de topic...

can anyone define friendship ??

what are friends for??

my defination of frendship is faithful, trustworthy ,steady,

friendly, willing to share everything wit u n most important is be true to u..

sumtimes.. what we asked for juz aint enuf..aint statisfied wat we have..

n we asking more n more...

frendship is nt about compare or jealous or watever...

there's once..a frend of mine hving problems wit her another frend..

when they talked things out..

the gal : a frend will happy for if u get gd result n not compare wit u..

they hoped for de best for u.. even she get a bad result..

n i agree wit that...

frends shldnt compare...

everyone has diff personality, diff thinking, n diff situation that they have to face...

frends shld be true to u... be frank wit u regardless anything... never cheat or backstab..

that's true frends...

frends shld advise n console when u face problem...

no matter u agree or nt.. juz listen...den analysize urself whether wat they said were

gd or bad for u... den is up to ur decision whether u wan it to be or nt..

wat they advise or console is becoz they concern n care about u..

dun reject if one day , a frend console or advise u...

trustworthy are aso important...they shared their secret is becoz they trusted u..

n they hope to shared everything wit u...

anyway..im nt refering to anyone... juz felt like blogging about frendshipds...

so dun think too much

as above..who really can categorise as true frends ??

we all knoe de best...

even u knoe there's a bad frend.. please give them a chance...

mayb..they juz dunno wat they did...

n of cuz... chances can be given once, twice, n eventually u will be dissapointed

third n fouth times...

n its time for u determine is this frend worth for it ??

will this frend appreaciate wat u did ??

think about it...

i do face this problems b4...

given chances but ended up dissapointed...

a friend of mine, sovhia..

she said frends are meant to use...but in term of gd side or bad side...

i was totally stunned by her words but after she explain..den i do agreed about it...

gd side... is when u feeling bored...u wil find frends yumcha...

when u face problems.. u will asked ur frends out.. n they will advise n everything...

in return.. when they face pro... is the time where they make use of us...

they will call u out..n u will start to advise n everything...

thats gd side of make sure a frend..

bad side ...when u get close to sumone just to get sumthing from them...

to me.. i do understand wat is all about ...

true frend dosent hv to be more... juz one or two will be gd...

im no longer the old jasmine..who trust ppl so easily...

i knoe who did gd to me...who appreaciated wat i do for them...

n aso i knoe who bad to me...i wun blame them.. juz felt dissapointed...

true frends hv unlimited topic..no secret between them...

dun hv to think b they said..they said watever they mean in heart..no a fake mask..

smiling infront of u...den backstab u at de back...

just treasure frends who beside u... never neglect them...

never doubt them...n never betray them...

that's all for wat to write..

ps : im nt refering to anybody.. juz felt like writing this topic...dun ask me who !!!

btw..i wanted to thanks to people who came to my party..

my family, relatives, bf n all my sec frends...

to dad : thanks for de everything

to amanda : thanks for de cake... i love it...

to mt n sk : thanks for de ipod... i love it.. im listening everyday ...

to sera :thanks for de body shop things... its a lotion, bathfoam, scrub..

to evone : thanks for cuming..

to ah boon : thxs for cuming too,... altot u are late...n where is my present ??

to ah lai : thanks for cuming.. n i knoe u hving exam...

thanks for de roses, red wine, n mng purse..

to elsie n step : thanks for de sexy pyjamas...

is very sexy man...haha... but benefit my dar lo...

to tiang : thxs for ur ang pao

to yang : thanks for de perfume...

ok...thats all...

gd nite...